It’s time for another week of Wine and Love, brought to you by Nora <3

Wine

1. It’s always a bit depressing coming back from vacation… or should I say going from sunny red rocks to gray snow…

2. It was time for parent/conferences this week. I do like my parents this year, and I like the second conference because I get to show off all the progress of the kiddos, but it just makes the work week soooo crazy that I have to wine about them.

3. My tutoring kiddos are making me crazy right now. Two of them in particular are just checked out and no matter how much time I spend planning a fun things for them to do they are just not having it. There is a LOT that I prefer about older kids, but it can be said about kindergartners especially in the group environment it is not hard to get them excited about something. Sometimes I wish my older tutoring kiddos were the same way…

Love

1. I told myself on Sunday that no matter HOW busy this week got, I had to make sure I still had time to work out at least a few times. I am happy to say I was successful with this plan even when it meant a bit of a rushed run outside on Tuesday afternoon.

2. On Wednesday I had my yearly dermatologist appointment and it was SO fast. It was snowing out so I think some people did not show up because the doctor took me on time to the minute, and I was in and out in 15 minutes. I got home so early I had time for an unplanned walk in the snow (see love 3).

3. Eric and I went for a lovely walk in the snow on Wednesday. Sure I’d rather it be a walk in beautiful spring weather, but I’ll take the walk.

4. The snow that began yesterday has continued today, so both Eric and I had class canceled tonight. I was originally a little bummed because it’s my photo class, but Eric and I decided to use a Groupon to get some Mexican food which ended up being a nice end to a long day. Plus, the Groupon was for $30 which we never spend at this restaurant so we got dessert too. Yum… my first time tasting churros!

I have to say, I was really dreading this week on Sunday night… a lot going on at work, coupled with a dentist and a doctor’s appointment- I was just not excited. I have to say, it was a lot better than I expected! Wahoo!

What are your wine and loves this week?

I think you guys know I love travel, right? Ha ha. I’m having one of those moments though where I realize that I cannot live from one trip to the next. So I think, what do I really love about traveling? I really love planning fun things to do, doing fun things, exploring new places and most importantly I love spending time with whoever I am traveling with. Why can’t I do these things now… when it’s not vacation, even maybe when it’s not a weekend… whoa, a school night? Seriously, I need to always remind myself to appreciate the smaller moments in life.

Enter: The I Love Boston Project. To complete this project, I will do at least one fun activity with someone I love (or at least like a lot) every two weeks and blog about it. Hopefully I’ll do it even more, but I do want to make it realistic. There is no specific end date to this project but I’d like to keep it going at least through the summer. Of course the main purpose of this goal is for me to spend quality time with the lovely people in my life, but I also hope I give you guys some good ideas of things you may want to do if you ever visit me in Boston, or maybe even give you an idea of something you could do in your own city. So for that, I hope you join me and enjoy!

Here are some of the things I have in mind:

Hiking and Walking. I think I mentioned the other day, I really, really want to do some hiking around Boston. Please make sure I start this, soon. I also really want to do at least part of the Boston HarborWalk.

Brunch and Dinners. I never need to be convinced to visit new restaurants. One thing I really want to do is a trip to the top of the Prudential to eat at Top of the Hub but the question is will I eat brunch or dinner… tough decisions!

Breweries and Wineries. Can you believe I still have never visited Sam Adam’s Brewery?

Shows and Sporting Events. Did you know Chicago’s Second City is coming to Boston in March? Awesome. Plus you know I love my Boston sports. In fact, I think a college hockey game might be first on my list this weekend!

Road Trips. Yes, I know I said Boston, but forgive me if I sometimes extend it to short trips from Boston. I’d really like to see the Portland Maine Lighthouse. As usual, I’ll use the term “Boston” liberally to mean anything you can reasonably get to from Boston.

How do you always make sure to appreciate the ordinary days and not live from one vacation to the next?

If only life could be vacation…

About 2 1/2 years ago, Eric and I decided we really wanted to go away in February, and flights to Florida were too expensive, so we thought we’d give Arizona a try. I posted on my blog that we were going to visit Phoenix, and check out the Grand Canyon. Many great blog friends told me that we HAD to visit Sedona along the way, so we did it. Well, it ended up being our favorite place maybe ever and now this is our third February in a row spent in Sedona. This year we decided to bring Eric’s family and it was our Christmas present to each other.

We’ve had two full days here already and they have been jam packed with stuff, so I will probably just write about one today. On our first full day in Arizona I got to see the sunrise (Boston time + Arizona not doing daylight savings)…

Later in the morning, we headed out to do a hike. The trail was one Eric and I had never tried called Little ________. It was a pretty easy hike but we were able to see a lot of the more famous sights including the Three Sisters, The Chapel built into the rocks and Bell Rock.

Later in the day the real adventure began, my second ever helicopter ride!

I used to be afraid of helicopters but now I think they are my new favorite way to see a place. Also, our pilot this time had my full trust- he used to fly helicopters in Afghanistan for 6 years, I’m sure he can handle some slightly crazy weather in Sedona and a few red rocks in his way

It was cool too because we were able to see areas that people can’t or don’t hike and therefore see some cool ruins…

And a cool view of Sedona High School on the way back to the airport…

The Sedona airport is located up on top of a mesa, so on the way down we even saw a rainbow!

For dinner, we headed to a restaurant recommended to us by the rental car shuttle driver in Phoenix and then again by one of my friends from work. It was called Cowboy Club and they have the famous cactus fries, which are actually really good! We ordered a bunch of appetizers and shared with the table which I think was the way to go since the appetizers were great, especially the chicken tortilla soup and the chips and salsa.

I’ll be back whenever I can get another minute with our epic day trip up to the Grand Canyon!

Last week was a weird one at work. I was stressed to the max but I never seemed to really be moving in the forward direction. I had high hopes for productivity, but stuff just kept getting in the way. I went home every night defeated. Friday morning was the most ridiculous. I got to work early and shit hit the fan in all directions and I spent the rest of the morning until the kids arrived hiding in my friend’s classroom. This week is going to be different.

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How will I make sure this week is super productive?

1. Make a To Do list every morning for both work and home. Not allow myself to be distracted by anything until the list is complete. Last week there was no list. That was the fatal flaw.

2. Schedule exercise. Last week I ran on Sunday, and then didn’t exercise again until Thursday. This does not work for my body or mind. Exercise will be on the list.

3. Take my vitamins. Everyone around me is sick and I REFUSE to spend another vacation sick. If I get sick next week it will be my third vacation in a row that I spend sick. Unacceptable.

4. Keep my eyes on the prize. Absolutely MUST get stuff done this week or I will not have fun on vacation because it will have to be done then. Unacceptable.

How do you keep yourself on track when you know you need to GET STUFF DONE?

I think most teachers out there know how kids are during the full moon. By that I mean, miserable. Actually I can’t even blame the kiddos for the crazy week. I mean there was some out of character behavior, mostly a bit of crying from my tough guys, but mainly it was just me who was OFF all week. Stressed, but just not as productive as I normally am. Hopefully that is going to change tomorrow, and 100% next week because I have a lot to do before Sedona. Also I went for a run on Sunday, and then didn’t have a chance to work out again until today. That’s a bit too long for me… maybe that’s why I’ve been so unproductive. Interesting.

Thanks to Nora for bringing Wine and Love to our lives.

Wine

Well I should start by saying that last week I ACTUALLY grabbed the bottle of wine on Tuesday night, and that didn’t happen this week, so I guess that is a step in the right direction, no?

1. Okay, maybe this is a whole post topic, but sometimes I find myself (especially at work) having to basically “put my foot down” on something that I may have been inclined to be more flexible about because I don’t want someone to take advantage of me. For example, this happens with kids all the time. I don’t really mind if 1 child whispers to his or her partner when I am talking, but if I let them get away with it, no one will ever listen to me again. What annoys me though is when this translates to adult relationships. I know I’m a pretty flexible person and I think sometimes people take advantage of that and assume I will be the one who bends. I hate that I sometimes have to be like NO in order for people to listen.

2. I hate homework. I truly think it should be banned from elementary school entirely. I know some children need the extra practice in order to fully “get it” but I think almost all children would benefit from more time to explore other interests or maybe just freaking relax once in awhile. I don’t assign homework in kindergarten so you may think this does not apply to me. However, one of my tutoring kiddos has spelling homework we do together every Tuesday. The past couple of weeks it has been serious torture, for both of us. This week is was so bad that I actually stopped at the grocery store on the way home for ice cream. True story.

3. The Super Bowl did not go my way. I’m really not a huge football person, but many people in my life are. Also, I don’t know if I can explain it to people who are not from Boston, but there is just something about New York for us… Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy New York City, and don’t know enough about the rest of the state to make a judgment. But it just always feels like Boston is the underdog to New York in life (though they weren’t supposedly in that game). I can only speak for myself to say this, but I’d rather lose to anyone but New York. Maybe you guys have your own cities/states that you feel this way about…

Love

1. I really love my photo class. I’ll probably continue to write about my experiments and what I’m learning, even though not too many people felt the need to comment on it

2. I love our Blogger Book Club. It has forced me to read so many books I never would’ve picked up on my own, and 90% of the time I end up liking them so much more than I thought I would. I finished Rebecca today, and I have no idea how many starts to give it. I liked the story line, though I think the beginning could’ve moved much faster. On the other hand, I absolutely hated the writing style.

3. This year I said no to the ridiculousness of the 100th day of school. Usually it’s a crazy big deal with parent volunteers and crazy amounts of prep and crazy kids. This year, we made awesome crowns I found on pinterest and I let the kids count 100 Legos and play with them. That’s it. The kids had a great day and so did I. Win for everyone. I plan for Valentine’s Day to be equally low key, though I should probably consider actually making or buying valentines…

Let it out- what are your wines and loves this week?

As you may remember, last summer I bought myself a DSLR camera. Since then I have let the camera do most of my work, either on automatic or on the sports mode that allows for my ever popular jumping shots. Last Thursday I took the first step towards knowing what the heck I am up to with this camera by starting a photography class with my friend Sarah.

The first class we talked about the 3 elements of exposure…

Shutter Speed: controls the amount of time the light is let in

Aperture: controls the size of the opening the light is coming in

ISO: controls the sensitivity to light

We also learned about something called bracketing, in which you can basically take 3 pictures at the same time where the camera will vary either the shutter speed, aperture or ISO. You can set exactly which thing you want to vary, and by how much. This is great because it allows for a little wiggle room. If you are a beginner like me, you might think you have the settings perfect but then when you take the photo, it’s just a little off. With bracketing, you have 3 pictures so you can choose your favorite. I also think it’s a cool way to see the affects that changing just 1 thing has.

Yesterday I headed outside to see if I could put some of what I learned to the test, so to speak Here are my experiments with bracketing:

Take 1- shutter 1/125, aperture f13.0, ISO 100

Take 2- shutter 1/125, aperture f18.0, ISO 100

Take 3- shutter 1/125, aperture f9.0, ISO 100

The first picture above is the middle aperture, and then in the second picture the opening was smaller, and in the third, the opening larger. Cool, huh? I like the first one the best, but I like the water color in the second one as well.

I also played with some bracketing on the shutter speed.

Take 1: shutter 1/640, aperture f5.6, ISO 100

Take 2: shutter 1/1250, aperture f5.6, ISO 100

Take 3: shutter 1/320, aperture f5.6, ISO 100

I’m only just starting to understand when/why I want to vary the shutter speed or aperture, but I do know that faster shutter speed will help me take those jumping shots, kids that don’t sit still, and swimming ducks, which was the case on yesterday…

I could also slow the shutter speed if I want to blur movement, but I haven’t tried that yet. As for the aperture, I was trying to use a low aperture to blur the background of my photos… I don’t know, do you guys think it worked?

Ignore the weird shadows and the fact that Eric looks like he may want to kill me. Surprisingly he was not that annoyed with my random photo shoot so I’m not sure why it looks like he is We will just pretend this was after the Superbowl and that’s why he looks so unimpressed.

Anyway, let’s for letting me show off my experiments. There may be more of these to come I’ll try to at least find new places so you won’t get too bored of ducks and swans!

Do you find photography interesting to learn about? If not, tell me about one random hobby you have…

Disclaimer: I am a huge beginner when it comes to photography. If I ever something TOTALLY wrong in these posts, feel free to let me know!